here is my new favorite item...the Aden & Anais burp cloth/bib. If your baby is too big to be swaddled by the great gauze blankets, get these. They wrap all around the shoulder, there is no retarded pocket to "catch", but really means just make another mess, and they are soft and lightweight. I LOVE them. you can get them at your local Target. (and the blankets too, if you have an itty bitty baby)